Hey its Heather. I was just reading this book about a gay guy and his life. Its called Totally Joe. You would think reading a book about a gay 8th grader would be totally stupid..and gay, but it really makes me look at gay guys another way. Now, I am so NOT saying that I am totally cool with gay guys but...well its complicated. Read it and you will know what I am talking about. Okay now to the point. This is a question that I have kind of been asking myself for a long time. How do you know if you like a guy? I have had crushes and then got over them and I don't know if I like a guy. Okay maybe a couple of guys. See the problem is how do you like a guy? Like, if you really like a guy do you give up on him? Do you get a feeling? Is it like a warm feeling or like a big shock feeling. I really need help, please email me and tell me your answer. Guys are so hard to figure out. Its all like you like em then it goes away and then you like someone and it goes away. And now I don't know if I like a guy or not. When I am around him/them I am too busy trying to figure out if I like them or not, I get all confused and don't know how to act. How do you know if you like a guy? Email me! Peace! <3 :D -Heather
